I can tell you girlfriend, so have I! And some years ago, I found myself asking the very question above... "Who Am I and what am I here for?"
Over the years I have learnt that life is about who you are becoming and I am now dedicated to having a shit load of fun every single day, living life full throttle and helping others to do the same.
So I am here to bitch slap that part of you that creates self doubt. And love, love, love that part of you that creates opportunity and gets out there and pushes play of your life and manifests all the positive abundance you could ever dream of.
Now in saying all this, and whilst I’ve always expected a lot of myself to play full out, tried to see the best in people, appreciated the beauty in even the little things, and tried my absolute best to look on the bright side of life no matter what the circumstances... life doesn’t always deliver me sweet experiences. My belief however, is it’s how you grow through your challenges that matters.
I always say ‘Judge my reactions in my times of trial, not in my times of triumph!
You can tell a lot about a person by the way they react under pressure or when things are not going so well. I have been in those shoes of yours so I recognise you, I was you, trying to look all put together on the outside, like ‘Yeh, I’ve got this’ but feeling a lack of self confidence and lust for life on the inside.
I figured out that my inner world creates my outer world, so no matter how sparkly my shoes were or how put together I looked, I could never shine as bright as I could if the light came from within.
So if you’re feeling stuck, unsure or confused with where you are in life, I want you to know...
I was at my wit's end, I decided I did not want to live my life like this anymore. And nobody could have told me this earlier. I had to arrive at this point on my own. It was back when I was a fashion designer in my mid to late 20’s. I was the product of unhealthy eating, excessive partying to escape reality, and a dysfunctional long term relationship. I was the owner of a successful fashion brand but I was unhappy in the reward verses exertion and not long before reaching this point of enough is enough, I had lost my mother to a 16 year battle with Cancer.
My head was running wild with noisy thoughts like...
"When will I find the right partner?"
"Life is too short and I feel that time is running out to accomplish my dreams"
"There must be more to life than this...someone show me how!"
My life was a bit of a mess and I had so much responsibility and things tying me down, and all I could think of in this moment was one of the last conversations I had with my mother. She had said something to me that I will never forget.
From that moment on I took this gift that she had given me and decided that I would not be having the same conversations at the end of my physical life. I wanted to retire from this world with no regrets. So I bunkered down, I crawled into my little chrysalis as a sad little caterpillar. I faced all that I had to to exit my relationship, close my business, find a new home and believe within myself that I was doing the right thing. On the other side when I emerged as a butterfly, it was so rewarding.
I was closing the books on this chapter of life, to start the next...
I took back control of my life and my destiny and started focussing on wellness, from developing healthy eating habits, healthy leisure and being engulfed in self love activities like meditation and exercise. I surrounded myself with positive people with a bigger vision, and I began to grow.
I went on to have a short, sweet and magical marriage, which lead to the most challenging time of my life. After that was complete I spent some time rebuilding my life to be so much more fulfilling than ever before. The most challenging times of my life have given me so much strength. Many of the lessons I have learnt have provided me with the ability to support others going through similar things.
After closing my fashion company I decided to dedicate my life to work with others who also, wanted to break free, make drastic changes, build more confidence and live the best life possible, while doing crazy fun things and just to be a big kid and play in this playground called life! Laugh every day, do silly things, play in the mud, splash in the puddles, roll in the grass and just see this whole game as an adventure that you can design just the way you want it.
Get out and live girlfriend! Everything in your life starts with you.
You are the creator.
Start today! There is no point in waiting until tomorrow, because tomorrow is a mystical land where 99% of all human productivity, motivation and achievement is stored…and never used. Access it now!
If you know there is more to life for you, and you want to make a start…I would love to walk with you on your journey, and together we can bring your aspirations to life and turn your biggest challenges into your greatest gifts!
To finish, I would like to ask you one question. Answer it honestly to yourself...
“When will you decide that enough is enough and make a stand for the gorgeous being inside of you that is just waiting to shine and is ready to kick living a mediocre life in the butt?”
You know she is in there, so let’s get her!
I ask you this because if that time is now, only you can make that decision. I invite you to explore my web resources, download all the free gifts that you can, connect with me, come to my next fun filled event and let’s get started on creating the life you really want to be living. The life you deserve and that your soul is calling for.
Become a strong, fun-filled, happy woman that settles for nothing less than the best!
You are unique and the world is waiting to see you shine! Express yourself to your full potential. See you soon.